Jean Poppei (Eisenberg)

I’m grateful for your post, Frances. Thank you.

Barry Mallis

I was very moved by your thoughts and insights, Frances. Perhaps I can conjure some small ray of sunshine in an attempt to stem the bad news...about birds. Here in central Arizona, at about 4,300', we have seen birds on our feeders that we never before notices. Habitats on the move? 
We read with deeply troubled feelings SW Audubon's messages about the dieoff of birds in NM. And yet, about two years later, we have Bullock's orioles, northern cardinals, black chin and Anna's hummers, purple finches, canyon towhees and much more. Some are first-time visitors to our tubes and platforms. Perhaps they are all canaries in the coal mine of severe, irredeemable drought, come to pay last respects to us humans. In the meantime, Melanie and I do our best to provide water and seed while hoping for relief from the so-called monsoon. Thank you for your reflections. They certainly meant a lot to me.

Robert Wolfe

Francis,
Thank you for your heart-felt words and thoughts. I, too, often feel the anguish of our biosphere and shed tears for it. Our heart helps us feel and be aware of problems and can tell us to act. Our heart often tells us how to act with other individual people. But our intellect is often essential for finding solutions to the problems that our heart alerts us to. 

Do any remember the Mahoning River in north east Ohio that was a fire hazard because of all the toxic materials that were dumped into it? It is now a relatively pristine park area with clean water, forests, and trails. Thanks to the Clean Water Act and local activism. See https://businessjournaldaily.com/mahoning-river-reclaims-past-life/#:~:text=%E2%80%9CThe%20lower%20Mahoning%20River%20remains,Warren%20to%20New%20Castle%2C%20Pennsylvania.

Do any of us remember walking around Pittsburg, New York City, or Los Angeles in the 1960s and not being able to see mountains in the distance and finding that our clothing was grimy from pollution at the end of the day? Those cities now have mostly environmentally pleasant neighborhoods to live and walk in. Thanks to the Clean Air Act. See https://www.epa.gov/clean-air-act-overview

With age, I have become much more aware of my failings and limitations. But I find that it is enjoyable to savor some true successes and to look for new ways to contribute. 

I share two personal "successes" below:

Jan and I installed solar panels over a decade ago and produce slightly more electricity than our house uses. Detroit Edison is furious about people like us and still wins many battles in their fight to control our energy use. But we are slowly winning the war. Join us! It is already much more than a movement and is now becoming an unstoppable force.

I spoke at a public discussion forum about closing down a nearby dirty nuclear power plant several years ago, rather than letting Detroit Edison build another plant on top of the remains of the old one. I was but one small voice among a few, but the new plant was not built.

Perhaps talking about "successes" might help more of them blossom.

Robert

Daniel Miller

Good on Frankie and Wolfie.  Both of you are saying things that need to said, and pointing to useful actions that can be taken.

Liz Ryan (Cole)

might sharing successes be the focus of a discussion when next we meet in Oberlin? and, because we need many more successes, looking for successes to build on?  

Ted Morgan

I join others in thanking you, Frankie.  Very moving words!  And while (now) living in a beautiful part of New Hampshire, I mourn the fact that I can no longer sit on our screen porch in the evenings listening to the 2-4 wood thrushes that until this year were audible --their aggregate numbers now halved, mostly by human development as we continue to chase the "good life."  The same forces that feed global warming and the death rate from forest fires.  I'm pretty sure many of us grieve for our planet; it's virtually a part of daily life these days.  Yes, the beauty (and the new migrating birds --thanks Barry) is still so remarkable, so life affirming, yet underneath is this the awareness of destruction, decline and death (including our own).  I trust others have read Elizabeth Kolbert's The Sixth Extinction.
 

Dick Hobby

First I would like to thank you, Robert Wolfe, for your valiant work in shutting down the nuclear power plant!  Bravo!  As you know my approach is to read carefully the arguments and ideas on both sides and then see which side has the better evidence and reasoning.  The down side of nuclear is much greater than the up side so I would phase out all existing nuclear plants and certainly build no more.  Anyway thank you, Robert, for your excellent work in shutting down that nuclear plant.

Which leads me to responding to Frances Hagberg Graham's statement:  "I do not understand Dick Hobby’s position in part because it seems to simply say “Do nothing unless there is 100 percent unanimity” – which is unachievable.  His favored scientist has a bent toward disagreeing with the larger more established group of scientists. And he seems satisfied to stop there. Would you have us do nothing about anything, I wonder."

On the contrary, Frances, I am very much in favor of action about everything!  I like to read carefully both sides and then decide which action to take or recommend.  There will never be unanimity on any issue as human beings are always at odds with each other.  So unanimity is not my goal and it is impossible anyway.  I simply study each issue carefully and then arrive at what I see as the side having the better evidence and then say:  take action!  For example:

1   shut down all nuclear power plants and build no new ones as nuclear is much too dangerous

2   use lots of coal and build more coal power plants as it is plentiful and can now be burned cleanly

3   continue to use oil and gas

    I hope, Frances, I have clarified things for you.

Best wishes,

Dick

Herbert Ziegler

Thank you, Frankie, for your heartfelt comments. As always, you are thoughtful and articulate, and without fear of revealing your true self. I confess that I am so involved in myself that I have little time or bandwidth for taking action on anything. (Although I am proud to say I installed solar panels on my roof six years ago.) 

What I am most thankful for from my Oberlin experience, other than good friends and feelings of camaraderie with all classmates, is learning how to think critically. This is a complex skill I am still working on that requires thoughtfulness; curiosity; philosophical, scientific, and humanitarian knowledge; compassion; creativity; travel; openess; careful analysis; and, especially in this toxic political climate, resistance to conspiracy thinking.

It seems that some brains are wired for conspiracy thinking, but like everything else about who we are as individuals, both nature and nurture can take us there. Although conspiracies exist, they do not explain everything, and positing them without real or well reasoned evidence does not make them so. I'll stop here: this is how my brain works. I will end up talking about everything that pops into my head. Glad to see an active discussion here. I miss snack bar and late night dorm discussions (not to mention class discussions). I look forward to seeing as many of you as passive at the reunion next year.

Ralph Shapira

I just posted on my profile my idyllic story of growing up in the wilderness of the Western Pennsylvania Appalachians.  It’s a paean to nature with an optimistic aspect — it describes the great re-wilding of the mountains since I first lived there 70 years ago.  It’s only a few pages long, and I hope some of you might enjoy it.  I would welcome any comments.

Tom Thomas ('69)

Hi, Ralph! So that members of the classes of 1967 and 1969 will also be able to read your post, I've inserted a couple of photos from your profile and added the story to our new website for the projected 2023 cluster reunion, www.obie676869.com. It's in the Recent Publications section. Twenty-three alumni from 1968 have joined the new site so far, and of course you're invited to sign up as well. We hope to have ten times that many by the time the reunion takes place a year from now.

Ralph Shapira

I've gotten some generous comments from classmates on the growing-up-in-the-country piece that I posted to my profile.  I've also just added some pics from that long-ago time to my photos.  I'm having a devil of a time getting the pics in the order I want them, but they're there.

Richard Zitrin

Tom, great hat! it looks, well, OLD!

Daniel Lesnick

Dear Frankie – I've been following the "discussion" involving Dick Hobby and a few of our other classmates, and I greatly appreciated your humanizing contribution.

To me, there’s no question but that issues relating to climate change will never be fully settled or agreed upon in our class pages – or anywhere else. Moreover, climate change is obviously just one of myriad issues about which the people of this nation (and many other nations) are irreconcilably divided.

You raise the question of what one can do that may make a difference for the better. And (if I read you correctly) you suggest that our responses should include more that comes from the heart and less from a need to defeat an opponent in an argument. I agree.

I have never been able to heavily devote myself to the political activism that was emblematic of Oberlin in our time there. Voltaire's Candide has been more my style – that of cultivating my own garden, or to be a bit more precise, doing what I can close to home rather than taking on the world. As I look back on my life, I can understand that this is why I became a history professor. While I loved, loved, loved the research and conveying of information I did in the fields of medieval and Renaissance history, my greatest professional love was using historical material to help students access, appreciate, and actually enjoy their own analytical thinking. (I no longer feel comfortable using the term "critical thinking" because "critical" now seems to be misused to feed current-day "oppositionalism".)

A couple of years ago, in light of Trump's and his followers' ridiculous claims that the 2020 presidential election was stolen, I found myself bothered – or perhaps I should say puzzled. My impulse was not to join those who tried to prove them wrong; I believed this would be a fruitless endeavor, since valid proofs would fall on deaf ears. Rather, I wanted to try to understand WHY 74 million people voted for Trump in 2020 election and WHY 35%-40% of the adult U.S. population would actually believe the big lie. So, I spent some months exploring and writing about the WHY. If you are interested in this exploration of the broader causes of major current issues/problems facing us, I invite you to read my essay (18 type-written pages) at https://democracyforbeginners.weebly.com/essay.html.

Best regards,

Dan Lesnick

P.S. Quite a few years ago, when I first became a hospice volunteer, I observed that as people grow older and physically (and perhaps mentally) less able and eventually may be approaching the end of life, their world becomes smaller and smaller until, close to the very end, it may be no larger than the area immediately surrounding their bed. I think that, as I find myself aging, this awareness is part of what motivates me to try to understand the broader, wider-world causes of those frightful changes we see, read about, and experience.

Ralph Shapira

I just posted chapter 2 of my autobio on my Classmate Profiles page.  It includes a good story about our beloved friend and leader Paul Safyan, a high school classmate.  Next up will be the Oberlin chapter.

Peter Griswold

Recommended reading - I just read Ralph Shapira's second chapter of his autobiography which is posted under his name in Classmate Profiles - funny in  places, revealing in others but most importantly, a meaningful story about a time in his life when he, like the rest of us, was navigating the path into adulthood, achieving a degree of independence, becoming aware of his vulnerabilities, and enjoying successes. The swimming meet and the sweatshirt stories are classics.  Thanks for sharing your great memories, Ralph.  

Robert Baker

Dan Lesnick's article is really an excellent analysis of how we got to our current political situation, and it raises the important questions that need to be answered for us to get out of it. Although it does not address the powerfully divisive issues of racism and sexism, those issues are partially driven by the economic issues he does raise. I think he's right that minds will not begin to change by having facts thrown at them; but that raises the question of how those minds do change on racial, religious and gender issues. Addressing the questions Dan raises is a necessary, but not sufficient, solution to our current political quagmire. Racism and sexism are anathema to a liberal democracy, and must be addressed in a way that wins the hearts and minds of the vast majority of citizens. Together with the economic suggestions Dan makes, we could then make headway against the anti-democratic beliefs to which so many now subscribe (and encouraged by Trump, the Koch brothers, and other billionaires in their own self-interest)). The lack of social interest and selfish philosophy of Ayn Rand, which dominates much of society, needs to be fought by examples of altruism and compassion for our fellow citizens. 

Anne Ashcraft (Maher)

Ralph Shapira

I have just posted to my Classmate Profile Chapter 3 of my autobio about my four years at Oberlin.  I hope you won't be overly shocked by one of my longest held secrets -- the predatory actions of one of our most prominent professors towards me.  I wonder whether any of you had similar experiences . . .  those were very different times than these. 

Daniel Lesnick

Thanks to Robert Baker for his generous and constructive comments on my essay. I confess to limited understanding of the complexities of racism and sexism, but I'm confident that he is correct about the important role of "altruism and compassion for our fellow citizens" in the fight against these indecent, anti-democratic scourges. And, having just now read his Profile Questions and Answers, I greatly respect him for having devoted an enormous part of his life to putting these ideals into very concrete and highly impactful practice.

Richard Zitrin

In addition to his abiding basketball skills, Bob Baker has for so many decades been a champion of truly equitable justice!

Ralph Shapira

Just posted Chapter 4 on my seven years in Berkeley on my Classmate Profile page.  There won't be another for a while -- my 27 year legal career and family life is a lot to get my arms around.  Thanks to those who have posted nice comments on my page.

John Robinson

Ralph Shapira

I'm reading and greatly enjoying Rich Zitrin's book, Trial Lawyer, A Life Defending People Against Power, available from Amazon.  His career as a criminal defense lawyer is as different from mine defending big corporations in business litigation as night and day.  It's an eye-opener into a fascinating world.  Bravura performance, Rich.  HIGHLY RECOMMENDED.

Richard Zitrin

Thanks so much, Ralph! Very different careers, true, but winding up in a similar place, both with memoirs. - Rich

Reed Cosper

Ralph, I read and enjoy your memoir, every word of it. And I’ve added here and there a positive comment. Today I take issue with your choice of the word “groomed.”  Groomed is more than a word. It’s hot button concept, and in the context of a twenty-one year old man at the end of his undergraduate education, it’s inappropriate. It’s a tabloid word. 

When applied to a sexual encounter, it’s use should be restricted to children. You, I think, were seduced, not groomed, and if you need an explanation, the classic one is readily available: “I was drunk; my judgment was impaired.” That would be taking some responsibility for what took place. Other available options are also present: “I learned then and there that I am not gay” being one of them. 

In high school, at Oberlin, and in early adulthood I was frequently groomed in the sense that you use the word. Being innocent, ignorant, ambivalent afraid about sex, I generated an ambiguous vibe. But, even at sixteen I had access to the word “No.”  I have said no to men and women. Perhaps too often. And men and women have said no to me.  As I grow old, I question the wisdom of my reliance on a hard firm no, when a softer gentler no, or a maybe, would have sufficed.  Having “no” in my vocabulary did, however, provide the advantage of owning responsibility for things that otherwise may have “happened” to me.

There remains the student-teacher dynamic.  It was late in your college career. You were likely to ace the course anyway. Your relation to Professor X at that point was more or less equal. Still, professor-student sex is inherently unequal, thus inherently an ethics problem.

I can say that the quality of undergraduate education would suffer if gender bent professors and queer undergraduate peers were barred from academe.  That’s the underlying value of just saying no instead of saying groomed.